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How Do I Support My Friend Through Her Separation?

At some stage we all have a friend who needs support as she goes through a separation or divorce. Not sure what the best way to support...

Putting on Your Safety Mask

If your physical or emotional safety is at risk after ending a relationship, there are actions you can take to reduce this risk and be safer

Is it Procrastination or Something Else?

We all have one of those files. You know the one. It perpetually sits on your desk looking at you, waiting for your attention. It never...

The "HOW" of batching your crazy, busy Family Lawyer life!

Ok, so I hear you – this batching approach to task management sounds great for getting more done in less hours but surely it is only for...

Affording Life After Separation

Separating isn't just an emotionally charged decision. It is also a financially stressful one. But there are actions you can take that will

The Law Lighthouse: Getting More Hours in Your Day (and Working Less!)

Constantly running around, chasing your tail and fed up with working long hours as a family lawyer? I may just have the super-tool that will

Putting the Cool Back Into Your Weekends After Separation!

After a separation, weekends can be a tough, miserable, overwhelming time. BUT, whether your children are with you or with their other paren

Welcome to The Divorce Lighthouse Blog

Welcome! I am so rapt that you have dropped into The Divorce Lighthouse blog! If you are thinking of separating or are currently going...