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Mar 23, 20204 min

Co-Parenting in an Upside Down World

This is a difficult and worrying time for everyone, everywhere. Our world has been tipped on its head. If you are going through a...

Mar 16, 20203 min

When You Are Caught Up in Conflict

Mar 16, 20208 min

My Ready for Covid-19 Tips for Lawyers!

With Covid-19 restrictions taking hold in New Zealand and elsewhere around the world, we face the issue of how to keep providing awesome...

Mar 9, 20203 min

There's Gold in the Uncomfortable Silence!

I sat in the Collaborative Process meeting with my head pounding. One party had just voiced the immensity of grief, frustration, despair...

Mar 9, 20204 min

Choosing the Right Pathway in Your Separation or Divorce

The saying “there is more than one road leading to Rome” petty well sums up the situation for sorting out the legal, financial and...

Mar 2, 20204 min

The Importance of Collaborative Community

Shortly before writing this, I was out for a ride on my mountain bike. I do a lot of thinking on my bike. On this particular ride, I got...

Mar 2, 20207 min

What You Believe in Your Separation

I spent time this past weekend mountain biking a trail I hadn’t ridden before. The experience was a real mix, going from feeling like an...

Feb 24, 20204 min

"I Want More Collaborative Process Cases!"

“I want more Collaborative Cases!” I hear you. Whether you are ten minutes or ten years out of Collaborative Practice training, if you...